"I hope that the days come easy and the moments pass slow, And each road leads you where you want to go, And if you're faced with a choice, and you have to choose, I hope you choose the one that means the most to you. And if one door opens to another door closed, I hope you keep on walkin' till you find the window. If it's cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile"-Rascal Flats-"My Wish"

This song has so many wonderful things to say.  We are on a journey with many roads.  We choose in which direction we want to go but sometimes there are better plans for us than we could even imagine so sometimes doors are closed.  Do we want to go over the top because we want it that much? Or do we look for another door or window?  That is the mystery of life.  Choices are for us to make.  And it is a very good thing that we don't know the answers.  We need to live life.  We need to trust that we are headed in the correct direction or we will know.  Like a parents guides a toddler headed to danger-we are supported and helped.  We always have choices and we can choose to smile and give that warmth to others.  So many people are hurting and are not at peace-how can you help? If you travel too fast on your journey you will miss those just off of your road-in the ditches.  Stop for awhile.  Reach out and lend a hand. Smile.  Your destination is still there.  Remember it is not really about the destination-it is about the journey.  Safe travels. Peace.