"Be always the first, do not wait for others to forgive, for by forgiving you become the master of fate, the fashioner of life, a doer of miracles. To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return you will receive untold peace and happiness...."-Robert Muller

When we have been wronged-it is easy to want someone to be punished or inflicted with bad karma.  It is hard to forgive.  It is much easier to have a grievance-to blame outside of ourselves.  But we really betray ourselves by choosing to not forgive because we fill ourselves with poison that eats away at us.  We damage ourselves and we chose that!  We can't control what others do but we can choose how we will respond.  By choosing to forgive we are giving ourselves a gift.  You have the power to stop blaming others.  You are not a helpless victim.  You are very capable of doing something that no one can do for you.  You can choose to forgive and give yourself peace.  And that feels so much better.  Peace my friend.